What do you need to set up a WAN cluster and what vendors offer WAN clustering support?
I can tick off a list of vendors, but keep in mind that this is a multidisciplinary effort, and it's going to involve different parts of your organization to really construct a true WAN cluster. You are going to have to involve your data storage team, your software team, your network engineering team, and really look holistically at everything.
When you start looking for solutions on the market, there are a bunch of them out there. It includes application-specific solutions such as Oracle Stretch Cluster or some of the Java solutions from Oracle. IBM has a number of solutions as well, for example, some of the WebSphere solutions. Also, Microsoft's Cluster Services have some capability for Exchange geoclustering.
When you start looking into the software layer, you'll find products like NEC's ExpressCluster, InMage's CDP asynchronous WAN solution that can do some failover and some near-geoclustering, Double-Take Software, SteelEye has some capability here, Symantec/Veritas has some solutions, and of course CA's XOsoft. All of those are viable contenders and there's likely to be a lot more that I didn't list. But, that's a good starting point.